Questions and answers

It's free to use. Storing lots of images and creating lots of bucket lists will require a Pro account.

Yes. Choose Just me when you start, and keep your own hearts, checks and memories. You can add an adventure buddy whenever you like.

A heart means you want to do it. Tap again for a double heart (you really want it), and once more to pass. A check means you've done it, and a double check means you did it together. When you and your buddy both heart the same thing, that's a match: it shows as You both want it.

Your adventure buddies will see what you've completed, and each buddy will see what you heart and complete with them. Notes and pictures are just for you and your buddy.

Go to Your account → Adventure Buddies → Invite a buddy, then send the link. You can also open your profile menu, tap Switch and choose Invite a buddy. Once they accept, you're adventure buddies.

Yes: a partner, a friend, your sister. Each buddy gets their own shared record with you, and nothing crosses between them. Add another from Your account → Adventure Buddies, and switch between them from your profile menu.

You choose. When you accept an invite you can decide whether the things you've already done show up for your new buddy, and you can change it later in that buddy's settings.

Open You both want in your account menu. It lists every match across the site, newest first. On any section you can also open the filters and set Hearted to Both.

Open the thing you did and use Add a memory. Choose whether it's just for you or shared with your buddy, and add photos. For a place, you can also use Log a visit on Memories.

Yes. On Bucket List, open Our lists (My lists on your own) and choose New list. You can also start one from Add to list on an item. Your lists are private to you andyour buddy.

Yes. Adventures With You is part of the larger Assist With family of sites, and you can connect an AI to help you mark what you've done or create your own bucket lists.

It can mark what you've done, record hearts and memories, and make your own lists. It never deletes anything or spends money. You can limit it or turn it off any time in Your AI connections, or just ask it to limit itself.

No. Adventures With You is built for the two of you first, and bringing an AI is optional. It always will be.

The AI guide shows how to connect Claude, the assistant it covers today. You connect it, and limit it any time, in Your AI connections.

Some things are website-only for now, such as most ratings and inviting an Adventure Buddy. There is also no full self-service export or account deletion yet. Follow What's New for releases.